Experience a safe, suppportive and confidential environment filled with grace! We will give you the tools and help you embrace and act on the truths that you need to be able to walk in freedom!
Enjoy the freedom you fought for!
Experience life the way God intended it!
Leave a meaningful legacy with no regrets at the end of your life!
Choose the mentoring plan that best fits you. I offer both 1-on-1 mentoring and group mentoring. Nearly all the mentoring that I do happens over the phone or through video chat. Technology gives you the option of being in a group with other like-minded men who are serious about their recovery, too. Together we'll find the plan that best fit you and your needs.
The first step is always the most difficult, isn't it? In a 30-minute discovery call, we talk about as little or as much as you'd like. I'll tell you about the framework I use to help men find lasting freedom, and we'll see if we're a good fit.
Are you ready to try smarter,
not just harder?
What I have found along the way is that true sexual wholeness and freedom is NOT just a one-time intellectual mastery and understanding of certain basic concepts.
It is rather an acting on basic truths again and again in the context of relationships with brothers who know all about me and still love me! This is one of the reasons that we rarely are able to get well on our own.
We won't make much progress toward sexual freedom until we are truly broken, quit pretending, and come to God in genuine repentance. We need to be willing to be guided by another person that knows the way out of this bondage.
If we mess up in a stressful situation, we ask God for forgiveness, and together seek to understand about what happened and why. We 'close the doors' to temptation in order to stay safe. We have a 'willing to do whatever it takes' attitude to become free. If we have this kind of commitment we will make significant progress.
Many of us need the accountability aspect of having someone regularly ask us the hard questions about how our week went and to help us unravel the mystery of why we went to porn and masturbation again or why we were so triggered in the first place. There is always a reason. But we have to be committed to complete honesty. In recovery we say, 'You are only as sick as your secrets!' Having a mentor who lovingly believes in us and who can see our progress we are making even before we can is so helpful.
A very important part of our healing is to also help other men who are several steps behind us in their healing journey.
THIS is the way forward...
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There needs to be a combination of:
• Regular Accountability and following through with practical steps of action to stop acting out. • Consistently cultivating spiritual and recovery disciplines • Repentance and deep sadness about my wrong choices and their consequences • Humility and recognize that I can't get well by myself. I need others to walk with me. • Scripture teaching, memorization, and by faith acting on these truths • Open and honest relationships where we are deeply loved and fully known (no secrets) • Exploring past traumatic events and inviting God to heal those memories with His Perspective • Becoming self-aware – Discovering what emotions / beliefs / situations make me vulnerable to sexual sin • Helping others get free who are several steps behind me
Salvador. My constant desire and motivation was to take complex truths from the Scriptures and make them understandable, practical and memorable.
I believe that this experience of distinguishing between what is theoretical and what is practical; between what is optional and what is essential is so useful now. I sift through all that I am learning and distill the most important principles and practical action steps to become free from sexual addiction. I want to be your resource person so that you don't have to read all the books and listen to all the faith-based talks on sexual addiction recovery. I want to walk with you and help you personalize the most helpful concepts. I will walk with you and show you where to start. I offer to be your guide.
I am incredibly passionate about helping you reach your goal of living free from unwanted sexual behaviors and experiencing a full and satisfying life without regrets. I'm promise I won't be turned off by your dark secrets. During those more than two decades of of pastoral counseling I listened to and helped men find freedom from the control of sexual sin. As a result of those experiences I have a profound confidence that God can restore what has been lost and broken through our wrong choices when we are truly broken and will to humble ourselves and trust others to guide us. It is true that I do not personally have a long history of wallowing in sexual sin. However, I have struggled with an eating compulsion that has many of the same dynamics – compulsions that you don't understood 'kick into gear' before you consciously think about it until you learn to slow things down and process the situations where you intuitively learned to look the other way and avoid pain through these sinful solutions. Since 2017 I have been leading a local support group for men who struggle with sexual compulsivity. Last year (2019), with local ministerial support I led out as moderator of a 5-part video series focused on making sexual sin a talk-able subject. As a result there are now 5 groups organized and most are having almost weekly meetings. Since July 2019 I have been mentoring men long-distance one hour a week for a fee. They want to be guided and recognize the need to be accountable to another person who can confidently show them the way to freedom. Lord willing, this year (2020) I should be able to complete the Sexual Integrity Mentor Certification training that I have almost completed. I would love to learn to know you, show you the way, and walk with you in this journey toward sexual freedom and wholeness.
Let me tell you my story to help you decide if working with me is a good fit...
In June 2017 in an almost audible voice I heard God calling me, “Arthur, I want you to learn how to help people trapped in addictions.'
In response to that call I have invested hundreds of hours and thousands of dollars learning from some of the best and most experienced faith-based counselors and mentors in the area of sexual addiction recovery. I have invested many more hours organizing the good content I absorb and working at making it into a cohesive unit.
Prior to this I invested 30 years of my life as a missionary pastor with a first generation church in San Salvador, El
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